Living in Realness is a weekly series that explores what it means to live, love, and grow authentically. Each entry offers a reflection or question drawn from Lessons From My 20s (LF20), inviting you to pause, consider, and share your own truth in the comments. This isn’t about perfection — it’s about honoring flaws, embracing self-compassion, and choosing authenticity over performance.

With that said, let's kicks off with a big one: How do you know something is real? Is it what you see? Feel? Taste? Hear? Smell? Or maybe it’s the way your spirit responds.

Share your test for realness in the comments — I want to know how you measure what’s true for you.