This is a space for reflection, connection, and authenticity — where we gather around the Living in Realness (LIR) weekly questions inspired by Lessons From My 20s (LF20).

Here, realness is our foundation. We believe love, growth, and self-compassion are found not in perfection, but in honesty — with ourselves and with one another. Each week, we reflect together on questions that invite us to pause, look inward, and share truths that matter.

This group is:✨ A safe space for authentic voices.✨ A community for wholesome and thoughtful conversations.✨ A place to honor both our struggles and our joy.✨ A rhythm of weekly reflection to remind us that we’re not alone in the journey.

Whether you speak often or simply read along, your presence matters. Here, we practice compassion, embrace flaws, and celebrate the beauty of living in realness.

Welcome — we’re glad you’re here. 💛

Living in Realness is a weekly series that explores what it means to live, love, and grow authentically. Each entry offers a reflection or question drawn from Lessons From My 20s (LF20), inviting you to pause, consider, and share your own truth in the comments. This isn’t about perfection — it’s about honoring flaws, embracing self-compassion, and choosing authenticity over performance.

With that said, let's kicks off with a big one: How do you know something is real? Is it what you see? Feel? Taste? Hear? Smell? Or maybe it’s the way your spirit responds.

Share your test for realness in the comments — I want to know how you measure what’s true for you. 

Welcome to our group The Black Bonnet Girls Group! A space for us to connect and share with each other. Start by posting your thoughts, sharing media, or creating a poll.